In Memory

This article is from the "Santa Cruz Lookout."
Every strong community needs a person like Rose Filicetti — a doer, a connector, an activist, a leader who radiates “big boss energy.” In Santa Cruz County, Filicetti, who died on Monday at the age of 73, checked all those boxes. But, say some who knew her best, she put the “social” in social justice.
“If Rose wanted something done, it got done,” said her friend Michele Bassi, “and you either hopped on board or moved aside. But Rose was also … just fun. She had a purple streak in her hair — purple is her favorite color — and she always had her nails done perfectly and dressed in whatever theme the event called for. She liked to call herself a party person.”
After a long career as a staffer for former state senator and Santa Clara County supervisor Joe Simitian, Filicetti and her husband, Neal Savage, moved from Mountain View to Capitola more than a decade ago, supposedly to retire. In fact, Filicetti jumped headlong into activism in her adopted community, particularly in the area of young people and education. She joined the board of the Watsonville-based youth education center Digital NEST and later founded Nonprofit Connections Santa Cruz County, devoted to streamlining social services for K-12 students and creating alliances among local nonprofits. She served as the nonprofit’s executive director until her death.
She also created an informal network of local women initially called “Not From Here,” because it included newcomers to the area who nevertheless wanted to get involved in the community. The social circle became so popular that it soon welcomed longtime locals and rechristened itself “Now From Here.” It remains an informal group dedicated to “have fun, connect and engage in interesting conversations.”
“She was a warrior,” said her close friend Suzanne “Z” Doty, who first met Filicetti when both women were living in the South Bay. “So many people knew her and loved her. She mentored people. She connected people. She networked — that was her key skill: connecting people who were like-minded or who needed to know one another.”
Doty was an early contributor to Nonprofit Connections, which launched during the pandemic, and, from that perch, she got to see Filicetti operate: “I thought, ‘Y’know, this is really a fabulous idea to connect all the nonprofits.’’ Santa Clara County and other Bay Area communities had nonprofit organizations devoted to helping other nonprofits run more efficiently. But Santa Cruz County did not, said Doty. “I jumped in. I just had to be part of it.”
“Rose was a force to be reckoned with,” said friend Karen Storey, “very hard-driving and persevering. She wasn’t what you would call a warm and fuzzy person, but she was a deeply caring person. She was very much all about social justice. She was truly dedicated to making life better for everybody in the community.”
Filicetti died from complications of heart surgery. She had been in intensive care for nearly three weeks, enduring three bouts of open-heart surgery. Her husband posted on CaringBridge that she died surrounded by family, including her three adult children — a daughter in Colorado, another in New Mexico and a son who lives in the South Bay.
“She was so intelligent and so compassionate,” said Suzanne Doty. “She was very politically astute and she was a great source of information about anything. But I think the thing she was most proud of were her children, and the fact that all three of them are stellar members of their own communities. She was so proud that all of them had a clear direction in their lives, had wonderful partners and were all contributing to their community.”


Gaynelle Dorsey
Rose was definitely a force to be reckoned with,even into her "retirement." She was a brilliant, hard-working lady with a penchant for politics and making her opinions known! I'll miss those Facebook posts. Sending love to Neal and their family.
Richard Bogert
It's always sad to see another one of our classmates pass on. I'm sure that her family and friends will miss her.
Kathy Harper (Sandell)
Another sad occasion to hear of a former classmates passing. I had intendied to sit down and write Rose after the 55th class reunion. Obviously she wasn't there. Procrastination creeps up on me again. If you're thinking about doing something, get yourself in gear and do it! I should've reached out quite a few different times. Rose and I were friends because our parents were friends way back even before kindergarten. Through the years she was a force to be reckoned with, lol, Total opposite of myself, being quiet and somewhat of a wallflower. Not Rose!!! Over the years, our friendship ebbed and flowed, but mostly ebbed. Few classes together and then I moved.. I felt sad to hear she was going to college at the UW at the same time I was. I never ran into her. I remember coming to Sunnyside after my grandma passed and heard her mother wasn't well. Her mother and my mom were quite good friends. We went to visit before they diagnosed her with ALS. I wanted to share that with Rose, but never got around to doing it. I do know that in high school she was a Girls State candidate. I was a alternate from my high school in Longview. . The two girls that attended from Longview came back and told me they had met Rose there and she was asking about me, lol. She and I touched base after the 45th and as I said, I was meaning to be more forward and reconnect with her. Sadly, it didn't happen. She had her busy life and so did I. I was happy to hear that she and Helen Hargis reconnected, which sounded like lots of fun! I will mention it again, sadly she will be missed, I had thought of her many times. So....reach out to those you may think about because things like this happen at our age. Take care everyone! Rose, you will be missed.! Kathy Harper Sandell
Helen Hargis (Black)
My heart is breaking for Neil,Rose's children,and granddaughters,family and many friends. We recently got together in August in Spokane and had a really great time with her and Neil. I had been to Santa Cruz to visit her several years ago after not seeing her for many years. I am so thankful for those times. It was like we started right where we left off. She was my first best friend ever and I hated leaving her when I moved to Lake Chelan from Sunnyside.She has left a lasting impression on everything she did and with everyone she met. I can't imagine the World without her in it. It will be a huge gap. I am praying that all the positive and wonderful things she did will help ease the pain of her loss. There will never be another Rose! I am blessed to have been her friend! 🩷